Diana posted, Anyone with any sense knows that a loan or mortgage has to be paid back by someone. No one is entitled to any inheritance. I would rather know that my parents or parent lived their final years how they wanted and had the money to do it comfortably than see them in some home just so I could get their stuff. My mother-in-law got a reverse mortgage and when she couldn't stay in the house anymore it was sold and the loan paid back and her sons split what was left. No one counted on getting the house or anything else.