Inhisimage, I must admit that I completely fail to see how your commentary relates to the thread topic or the OP.

As to the content of your post:
the gist of it appears to be a partial rehash of some slanderous accusations which were published during the first half of the twentieth century by people seeking to disparage the writings and character of Ellen G. WHITE, and by extension the Seventh Day Adventist church and its members.

These accusations, plus a host of others, have been well documented and have been exposed as the libelous misrepresentations and lies that they are.
Volumes have been published on this matter, the most well-known of them probably being Francis D. NICHOL's book Ellen G. White And Her Critics.

The dress reform accusation is discussed here, and the matter about whether or not questions concerning testimonies had been answered by E.G. WHITE is documented here.

I sincerely hope that this will help to clear up the cognitive dissonance that you may have experienced.

Bright blessings