I will add to all of what allodial has said by encouraging you men to begin delving into "Red Pill" knowledge on the nature of women.

Here I present the top of the heap of red pill websites: http://therationalmale.com

You men have been socialized by society to go against your best interests to become willing indentured servants.

If you think you can handle "red pill", I'll be there to introduce you to MGTOW.