In Christ: the husband (protector of the wife and child assets) is head (chief) of wife (not the Governor or the Prime Minister), Christ is (direct) head of husband (not the State). Apart from the marriage you and she are equals before the throne of grace. As for her being a good administrator, that is even the case with many business owners: the people that serve them are often more skilled in some things than they which is why they hire them in the first place. In nothing do I aim to denigrate women. The Deceptive Pied Pipers are the ones who teach women to allow themselves to be degraded or to degrade themselves.
As for women being 'oppressed'. By far from direct observation spanning well, well over a decade, women are more likely to oppress and to abuse power than men. Women are more likely to do something cruel and wash her hands of guilt over with "He was stupid so he deserved it." Women are more likely to abuse children and then blame a man for it so she can keep up her false saintly image (there are sites and women's groups were women teach each other these things in divorce cases; public housing I'm told is where tradecraft secrets are often shared.)