As you have found out, nobody is going to hold your hand or serve redemption to you on a platter.
Redemption is in between YOUR ears.......make it your own & OWN IT
You have 6 1/2 months to learn what you must do, then all of 2022 to put it into practice before filing in spring of 2023
I will point you to a 104 page thread on another forum which has much good information. Besides other posters, an "Anonymous Coward" by the user number 71408469 is none other than Martin Earl. Martin Earl OWNS it, and practices DEFENDING it without effort......as should you.
Learn some things and come back here to ask more pointed question so YOU MAY OWN IT ALSO !!
https://www.godlikeproductions.com/f...age1304915/pg1